From Myths to Facts: Why Adult Products Are About Care, Consent and Confidence – Especially in Modern Ireland

Even today, myths about condoms, lubricants and adult toys still shape the way people think about sexual health. These myths often come from outdated beliefs, cultural silence or shame. But here in Ireland — a country that has made one of the most remarkable social transformations in Europe — it’s time to leave those ideas behind and embrace facts, openness and respect.

People have used protection and intimacy tools for centuries. Ancient Egyptians crafted early condoms. In 16th-century Italy, Gabriele Falloppio described linen sheaths used to prevent disease. In the 1800s, rubber condoms arrived, followed by modern latex. Today, Irish consumers can choose from ultra-thin, textured, vegan-friendly, and latex-free options — all tested and regulated for safety.

Lubricants also have a long tradition, from natural oils in Africa to plant-based formulas in Asia. Modern lubricants are safe, pH-balanced and comfortable — supporting pleasure, reducing friction, and helping people of all genders and ages enjoy intimacy without discomfort or pressure. They’re not just for “problems” — they’re for pleasure, comfort and care.

There’s a myth that sex toys are unnatural or replace partners. In reality, they enhance relationships, not replace them. In fact, many Irish couples and individuals now use toys as part of their wellbeing — to relieve stress, explore sensations, and build trust and fun in relationships. Therapists increasingly recommend toys to help people reconnect with their bodies or reduce anxiety around intimacy.

Adult products are legally and ethically for those aged 18 and over. At this age, people can make informed, empowered decisions about their bodies and relationships. Education is essential — not just in schools, but in homes, online spaces and shops that treat intimacy with maturity, respect and honesty.

Ireland has come far — from a time when talking about sexuality was taboo to today’s climate of compassion, consent and inclusion. From marriage equality to broader discussions about gender and identity, we are building a culture where shame is replaced with understanding. Choosing a condom is no longer a secret — it’s a sign of respect. Using lube is no longer awkward — it’s about comfort and communication. Owning a toy isn’t strange — it’s an act of self-awareness and care.

Being an adult means knowing yourself, trusting your body and making choices that reflect your values. In modern Ireland, that includes being honest about intimacy, embracing diversity, and taking pride in safe, consensual pleasure.

Let’s talk openly. Choose mindfully. Live with confidence.